Thursday, January 4, 2018

Year End Newsletter 2017


This morning's view

New Year Greetings from us to you,

2018!  We made it!  No lengthy Newsletter from the Frasers this year, just a short note and some pix to acknowledge the passage of another cycle and your friendship.

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What a challenging 2017!  Alternate Facts, Fake News, political madness, increasing polarization and marginalization, widespread demographic upheaval worldwide, and - above all – across North America, the rollbacks or outright destruction of decades of 

A pristine day at the cottage
A pristine day on Hilton Head

progress on protecting the environment, species at risk, climate change, the safety of our food, and Health care in both Canada and the United States.  We live in precarious times!  How is the youngest generation ever going to make it for the next 60 years?  Our planet is so tortured and assaulted by gigatons of carcinogenic pesticides, toxic ocean dumping, carbon dioxide emissions, oil pollution on land and water, minerally-depleted agricultural soils, and on and on.  What are we thinking?  On all fronts, the world is so different than when we were younger.  And North Americans wonder where the catastrophic rises in autism, neurodegenerative diseases and macular degeneration come from…


A typical evening on Hilton Head
A typical evening in Palm Desert


But...  “Let us not allow modern day to distract us away from the exquisite wonders of this world and our ability to experience it together.” Robinson Jeffers, California poet

On that more upbeat note, we are both fine and in the sun in radiant California (think: vitamin D) for the winter.  We have each other, health, adventure, freedom, and opportunity… 

Frequent Flier Zorro patiently
waits for a connection at
Dallas/Ft Worth airport
We are happy, and like everyone else, too busy - and tapped into too many things - but thrilled to be still following our annual migration pattern of winter in no-snow-tires California, Spring in beautiful Hilton Head, South Carolina, Summer and half of Fall at our wonderful lake cottage, and finally a few Fall weeks at our house (read: warehouse) in Ottawa, a city we increasingly appreciate on a comparison basis, plus or minus a quick week in Victoria BC.  We have opted out again this year of any exotic land and sea travel… but we are starting to get wanderlust…

We wish you may also have health, adventure, freedom, opportunity, and strength to combat the Endless Madness which barrages us while we try to remember the Real Christmas. (Forgive us for this late reminder.)

All the best of Good Fortune for 2018.

Fondly,

On the beach in Hilton Head
Colleen and Don


Richard & Betty visit Hilton Head

Daufuskie Island, SC: with Eileen
& Ed on a day trip from Hilton Head 
In Lisa & Patrick's Hilton Head pool


Can anything be better?
Evening bonfire at the cottage

Victoria’s Alex & Linda visit us, and the Ottawa River


Victoria BC: the iconic Empress Hotel
Buddies George & Margaret in Stanley Park,
Vancouver
Canada 150 celebrations:
150 yrs since confederation
The Christie Lake 60's Gang
National Arts Center in Ottawa: Carrie & Melanie
at the spectacular Royal Winnipeg Ballet 2017 Nutcracker
 
















                                                                                                                                                 

On Christie Lake: a day with
Jane & Konrad
Palm Springs: hiking the nearby
canyons with Steve & Lynn

With pals Dave & Diane at a huge
pro tennis tournament blocks from our Calif house


 Serious play at the PNB Paribas,
Palm Desert, March


Aliens? Startling December night 
launch of Space-X as seen from our street
Pontoon boat rental in Hilton Head:
Graham & Colleen navigating the channel

A meeting of the Mutual Admiration Society
in the cottage "office"


Kingston, ON: Fall reunion weekend for our 45th
anniversary of graduation, standing on the exact spot
where we met in late 1971


Jan 2's supermoon in California bids us all a Happy Year 2018





Monday, December 26, 2016

Season’s Greetings from our house to yours! We hope you are active and healthy enjoying the opportunities life and retirement offer.

 Off to Easter Sunday church
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At year end, when we become more reflective, we give thanks for our good fortune and good friends. Despite the omnipresent threats (and acts) of terrorism, and despite the broad-based anxiety across the world that anticipates chaos and doom commencing next month with the new US Presidency,  despite Syria and the unprecedented European refugee crisis, and despite the gathering storm that is the skyrocketing per capita debt load being thrust upon taxpayers by our Ontario government here at home, and on and on,  we are still smiling and thankful for our situation.


Alarmingly, however, we must be getting old, since we have settled into a routine – it is not a bad routine to be sure, but something, in our more adventurous days, we did not imagine ourselves doing; we haven’t been on a cruise since 2013, and although we are away from home most of the year, we haven’t even left North America in 3 full years.  The irregular has become regular for us.

So, what have we been doing?  

Our view: December to April.  The baby tangelo tree in the
foreground is much larger now, 8 mths later, and already bearing fruit
We winter in South California, April-May is in South Carolina, the summer sees us at the cottage near Ottawa, and in the Fall we take a small trip plus make a short visit back to South Carolina.  And then we wonder where the year has gone.

Snow capped mountains at the end of our street 
We love the little house we have owned now for three winters in Palm Desert, CA, 2 hours inland from Los Angeles.  The winter weather is perfection, the scenery is dreamy, and there is plenty to see and do in the area with our visitors and local friends.  

Nearby Palm Springs is only 17 miles away and has the cutest, mostly outdoor airport into which we fly from Toronto. This famous Mid-Century city hosts an International Film Festival for 2 weeks in January, which is always fun and informative, plus there are State Parks, special sites and many trails where we hike and visit. And if you enjoy shopping…


Zorro gives approval to cruise buddies Bill & Kathleen from San Fran


In the mountains above Palm Desert

Ottawa's Carrie goes gourmet for us



Nearby Joshua Tree National Park with Carrie & Graham
Travel buddies Lynn & Steve visit annually from San Diego

Not counting candles with Lynn & Steve

George & Margaret, long time Vancouver friends

More feisty Canadians in the Desert: Dave & Diane

In Feb, Don made a quick trip from California to Victoria BC to install a security lock on the front door of our rental condo that permits secure personalized combinations to be entered on the lock over the internet and emailed to each guest –  AND for us to know when guests and the cleaner or workmen use the lock.



Active Pass between Vancouver & Victoria
Our Victoria rental condo
Out the window















Our spring and fall getaway is to Hilton Head Island, SC; a very special place – 4 hrs east of Atlanta, 2 1/2 hrs south of Charleston, and 45 min north of lovely Savannah, Georgia to which we fly.  

Meeting up again with Asia travel pals Gord & Suzy; Hilton Head this time


And Hilton Head was chosen in Fall 2016 by Conde Nast as the 3rd most popular US island holiday - with Maui and Oahu being numbers 1 and 2 – and with HH a whole lot easier to reach. Check it out if you are interested.
 http://www.hiltonheadisland.org/conde-nast 
Having a spot of tea in Hilton Head

Our screened porch
Refined, cultural, clean, classy are all appropriate descriptors for this tightly zoned island where developers 50 years ago envisioned for this maritime forested, beach rimmed, 5 X 12 mile island, no neon signs, no ugly strip malls, no casinos,  but instead neighborhoods, restaurants, commercial areas and parklands surrounded by protected forests, lagoons and beaches without towering highrises, noise or the too usual beach shenanigans that eventually spoil special places. Plus golf – lots of golf, over 20 on-island courses – 4 alone in our neighborhood – and 20 more nearby on the mainland.


Our house there rents out well as a vacation rental, and we reserve weeks for ourselves to bask in it all, plus do regular maintenance.


Summer 2017 was weather-wise the best in a decade, and the cottage was again a fabulous retreat for which we are forever thankful to Colleen’s parents for buying and passing it on to us. The city was too hot many times this summer, but the lake, just perfect. So yet another year, our Ottawa house sat in almost abandonment. How many years have we said, we really need to do something about this? But, we are too busy. So, maƱana!

Friends Heather-Joy & Shawn enjoy a day at the lake ... 
... with the kids

Cottage friends getting together at a nearby lake


Cottage gardens
Christie Lake. The view from the cottage.
















The languid Tay River leaves our lake and meanders
 through historic Perth, Ont,10 km away



Part of the Cabot Trail that encircles Cape Breton Island
On the Cabot Trail
After a late September cottage closing – lots of work – docks and boats out, pipes drained, shutters on, all liquids brought back by boat and car to Ottawa since no cottage heat is left on - we flew In early October to eastern Canada, to spend a wonderful week on Cape Breton Island – which is the eastern tip of Nova Scotia.  Cape Breton is world-famous for beautiful landscapes and for its distinct Celtic music – especially the traditional fiddle music – and is also a cultural hub to preserve the Gaelic language – hence the signage on the locally famous Red Shoe Pub, for instance, in the tiny village of Mabou, one of the epicenters for traditional music and home town of several recording artists, like the internationally known Rankin and Macmaster families.  We timed our visit to the Celtic Colours 10 day music festival which spans several concurrent venues across the Island, and we soaked it in with tickets bought well in advance for the very popular events: square dances, fiddle playing, barn concerts, step dancing lessons, fun pub music nights with good Celtic food, and nostalgic, heartbreaking gaelic songs.  
Near the rustic Normaway Inn in
the Margaree Valley - fly fishing country

The Red Shoe Pub, Mabou - an anchor for Celtic music
For more on Cape Breton music, we made a 5 minute video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRpvGagpoGE

 
But out of one eye we watched with increasing attentiveness and fear, the path of category 4 Hurricane Matthew as it bored its way up the east coast of the US towards Hilton Head.

On Oct 8, for the first time in 80 years, and with a duration of twelve hours, the full force of Hurricane Matthew made landfall at Hilton Head, battering it.  The devastation was extensive.  Because the SC Governor had ordered the island evacuated, there was no loss of life, and on Oct. 9 the National Guard and heavy equipment on standby on the mainland, moved on island to begin clearing the roads and restoring power, water, and hospital services.

Three days later the island opened to residents and we flew from Halifax to Savannah to see what God had wrought.  Miraculously, our house and yard were spared, although many around our house were not.  As we write – 11 weeks after the event - we are informed that some 1.2 million cubic yards of debris have been removed by the many work crews on the island, much of it gratefully paid for by FEMA, the Federal Emergency Measures Agency, including just over 48,000 downed and leaning trees that have gone off to pulp mills in the area. The debris removal still has months to go.















Now we are back in California until April, already  wearing shorts in cool weather, but with still fleece tops on. Christmas Eve service nearby was lovely, and on Christmas Day, the turkey aromas permeated the corners of the house.  Friends from Canada and elsewhere in the US arrive mid January for their winter escapes.

We try to end these year-end reviews with something contemplative, and this year we happened upon an inspirational video – that evidently 68 million others have already viewed - from the mormon.org website.  We are not Mormons, or even particularly religious, but the humanity of this message resonated – and if taken to heart would definitely help our world.  So, if you are interested, take a look.   https://www.mormon.org/christmas/light-the-world

We are glad to count you among our friends. We wish you a happy year ahead and look forward to maintaining contact with you.

Warm regards,

Don and Colleen
Don decorating his own birthday cake...




Now THAT'S a coincidence!
Six geese a-laying with Palm D friend Corrie


Easter morning means hot cross buns





Don's mum still doing well at 90



Hilton Head friends and cruise buddies Eileen & Ed


Zorro at the cottage: look, there's a mouse! get that mouse!

You can never have too many freshly picked grapefruit








Not everything is as it appears in this picture
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRpvGagpoGE